Many Arabs lost family in the 1982 Beirut
bombings
The man standing beside me in the crowd was sobbing his heart out. Along with dozens of other people, his wife and children lay crushed beneath the rubble of the collapsed building we were looking at.
It had been brought down quite scientifically by two big explosions.
The multi-storey apartment block was demolished because somebody thought Yasser Arafat was there. He wasn't.
It was destroyed by two Israeli jets which flashed out of the sky on that Friday summer morning in Beirut during the Israeli siege of 1982.
They were acting on the orders of then Israeli Defence Minister, Ariel Sharon.
Now, he is Israel's prime minister, and he's eagerly signing up to take part in America's new crusade of good against evil.
Forgotten victims
The above was one of many such incidents during Israel's adventure in Lebanon, in which uncounted thousands of Lebanese and Palestinian civilians were killed.
They died unmourned and largely unnoticed by the American public, whose largesse - financial, military and political - made it all possible.
The same formula has held true for the Palestinians practically since Israel's creation in 1948.
Apart from President Dwight Eisenhower, who pressured the Israelis to pull out of Sinai after their tripartite assault on Egypt with Britain and France in 1956, few US leaders have ever stood up to Israel and its enormous influence on Capitol Hill.
Although there are many other issues, Washington's enabling alliance
with Israel may be the biggest element in the Arab and Muslim anger, hatred and
despair which are focused on America.
For them, Israel is a terrorist, gangster state which has usurped Palestinian land and water, demolished Palestinian homes, and stopped at nothing in pursuit of its interests and enemies, including torture, murder and pioneering the use of the car bomb in the region.
Powerful ally
Whatever Israel has done, it has always been able to count on unflagging US diplomatic support, especially in vetoing, diluting or ignoring UN resolutions.
In the wake of the latest crisis, one Palestinian long resident in the US wrote: "Typical of the way America handles such matters, they're throwing money and military might at what they perceive to be the problem, totally oblivious of the necessity to change their ways.
"The problem? American foreign policy is flawed, fundamentally bankrupt, totally biased, and very self-serving. But do you think they're going to admit or even see that? Heaven forbid!
"They may vaporise Bin Laden and all his cronies, but they will not get rid of future Bin Ladens unless they screw their heads on the right way, and start realising and practising 'fair play' in the Middle East."
Unsympathetic
In a comment typical of much regional reaction to the terror attacks, one Iranian newspaper wrote: "It is obvious that they never even thought of sharing the plight of, or expressing sympathy with, the oppressed and innocent Palestinians, whose 'sin' is demanding an end to Israeli military occupation and systematic crimes against humanity."
Other aspects of the impact of America's massive global power on the region also add in to the bitterness felt by many ordinary people. Perceptions include:
Familiar images
For decades, people in the Middle East have lived with countless images not unlike the horror pictures coming out of New York, albeit rarely on such a concentrated, massive scale.
Because they have been through it, most sympathise strongly on a human level.
But irrespective of who precisely did it and why, many people in and from the region had a deep gut feeling that decades of accumulated poison somehow found expression on 11 September 2001.